On the personal pages - poems, photos, pet cat, thinking about life and people. That is, we have quite adequate and I would say, of human development. Then where such cruelty in the responses to the question: 'Birth or Death? " Themselves childfree their dislike, and sometimes aggression towards 'razmnozhentsam' (as they call their ideological opponents) and their children the only attribute considerations of self-defense. Link to social pressure and coercion to secret birth of children. Some remember a difficult childhood, lack of understanding with the parents and say they do not want to be someone else took a similar path. Now glance at those who, on the opposite side.

I'm talking about people who actively assert that children need both family and society, and abandon their birth - a sign of immaturity and selfishness. After studying the opponents camp childfree can say with certainty that the original had a few people a stance on this issue. Typically, a person already has a child becomes the enemy, when he learns about childfree existence. But this does not mean that his own choice - to give birth and raise a child - was deliberate. I just mention here are several causes for children in families, and already you, dear reader, to judge how widespread they are. So, some get pregnant and give birth because they 'have time', referring to the biological clock. Other - because they were unable to avoid pregnancy. Others - to 'bind' partner, the fourth, not having regular partner, give birth 'to a'.

Fifth - are afraid of lonely old age (this is, egoistic motivation: 'Rozaje that there was someone in his old age bring a glass of water' - is so much anger among childfree). Of course, there are those who giving birth, simply because he loves children and is willing to put soul into their upbringing. But, unfortunately, cases of 'conscious parenting' in our time is not as frequent as we would like. It turns out that there is no difference between a person traveling to a ski resort for pleasure and the person deciding to bring new life into the world just to get to the old proverbial glass of water, or to see how the child realizes his own - parent - the unrealized ambitions. After all, he and the other come only out of selfishness. And if there is no difference between the opponents, then they fight with someone? In Kabbalah, says that self-interest - that is the nature of every person, regardless of its beliefs. And as long as people do not get a real opportunity to deal with your selfishness, any attempt to withdraw from the selfish perception of the world would be nothing more than a battle with windmills. Protivostyanie childfree and 'Razmnozhentsev' is proving to be a pacifier, because they, and others, accusing opponents of selfishness, as the source of all evil, do not see it as a. No matter how we tried to act altruistically, raising their children or interacting with others - without conscious self-development in this direction will not work. It is such a method - development of the ability to get out of their limited egoistic 'I' - offers mankind Kabbalah. If a person acquires the ability to truly care about others and not be closed on personal interests, regardless of whether or not he has children he can find himself in a beautiful and loving world.